December 19, 2008

What a woman wants....!!!

The million dollar $..!! the holy grail of guys..! the secret... etc...
call it by any title of sorts yet it is the intriguing mystery to all... here is an humble attempt to answer d same..!
now women are considered to be unpredictable,moody,complex,intriguing,mysterious etc..
let me tell u something.. we adapt to the situations aptly and we r not that complex to understand.! gguys take us for granted and complicate things.. they fail to understand that we have emotional needs and are not only meant for making babies,washing,cooking and warming ur bed...! here r some pointers which will help u understand us little better.!
  • Be loving and caring.... praise us for some small effort made by us ,love and cherish us
  • dont be overcritical for every goddamn thing
  • be romantic once in a while (for some losers)
  • a girl likes a GUY as in a macho guy not a metrosexual hermaphrodite.! i mean why do guys shave and wax and thread their eyebrowS?? only difference is u dont have periods (also mood swings lol ) and u dnt bear children
  • call her and talk to her.. let her know u will b there for her
  • dont break her heart
  • be loyal to ur partner.. if u r in a external relationship talk it out decently and end it amiably. dont be cheap and rude!
  • a long drive and romantic talk turns a girl on...
  • in bed.. be giving and not only demanding.. if ur gf/wife isnt in the mood for sex leave her alone that night.. dont demand it ! as u wont enjoy it.. i suggest u rather SHAG !lolz..
  • respect a strong headed independent girl and her viewpoint.
  • let a girl spread her wings
  • gift chocolates and red roses..
  • as for wedding, a diamond ring works wonders !!
  • help in daily chores
  • comfort her during her PMS

i think for the moment this should be it...!! hope it helps u little bit for understanding us !!

lastly would say dont treat girls as though they r unimportant ! they r a beautifl part of life... cherish,respect and love them....

do post comments !

love

anu

December 18, 2008

Love , Life and Sex...

Love is supposed to be a beautiful feeling... iam sure it must b! but the question is does it hold true in today's scenario..
we as bachelors and spinsters love maggi noodles for its instant cook factor (as max stay outside home) and hence we look for the same in our love life..
i love u !! the most over abused words in today's time.! bangalore culture is literally going to dogs.. everyone has min 2 bfs (iam currently single lol) .. i guess this is true even in IBSB. many girls and also guys claim to have steady relationships back home yet, they sniff aound like bitches in heat in the campus.. i see a new love story developing every day !
where is ur so called committment level now?
my personal opinion is that flirt and date as much as u can sustain and cope with.. but then dont blemish the term "committment"..! it is a strong term to be used only when u know abt ur future together..
i personally keep updating my bf's list since i believe total committment is only after marriage!

love is companionship for me... the beautiful feeling of belonging to someone and someone belonging to u.. where u hang out together physically,emotionally and mentally..
the best scene can be... rainy weather.. loved one..balcony...coffee and a quilt...! oh jesus!! it sounds sweet...!!
now comin to life.... life is a dynamically beautifully gift given to us by GOD... how we lead is upto us.. i dont beleive in philosophies (which have no head or tail) .. so i would say
  1. live and let life
  2. total enjoy maadi
  3. never regret ur actions.. if u feel like doing something JUST DO IT !
  4. 4.never intentionally (also unintentionally) hurt others...!

SEX.....! The taboo topic of indian society...

i fail to understand WHY ? we have a population of billion plus ppl... did they fall from d sky?? i dont think so.. sex is a beautiful feeling ( i have heard so..lol) and has been glorified from centuries.. the best sex treatise is from our own motherland, Vatsyana's kamasutra

the temples of khajuraho bear testimony to the same...!! then my question is why is it so degraded in recent times?? the advent of movies and the cheap body show has screwed up ppl's perception! women are just thought of as a bundle of gr8 tits and ass..where has the respect gone? why do guys care if we wear padded brassieres of not??

Sex is a personal issue and shd be respected..asking questions like r u a virgin? shows cheapness of mind.. none of ur fucking concern if a guy/gal has screwed many times or not!

now.. premarital sex is the lastest issue.. i believe it is ok till d time u r comfortable with the guy and have no regrets later on..!!

i think i shd stop now..!! more viewss but time constraint !

plz comment on my articles!!

love

khushi

Friends...!!!

friends...!
the most important linkage in ur life..!! this relationship is sacred since u can share ur thoughts and views freely with frds..! u can be what u are ! and not pretend othrwise.
sometimes we find difficult to talk abt our hidden fears, our sexual desires,aims etc to our relatives and parents.. hence god blessed us with FRIENDS..
TO choose a good trustworthy friend is an differrnt angle altogether..sometimes we make mistakes and sometimes we choose diamonds..!! anywyas as someone rightly said "to err is human"
coming to my friend circle in IBSB , touch wood iam blessed with gr8 frds.
firstly my roomy Megha Malpani.. gem of a gal.. no words to express her caring nature and attitude..!
Manoj Peter ... a man to respect !
Anant arun Singh.. Shoppaholic...!
Rajiv Rathi....Gr8 Guy..!!
this was my very private inner circle...
now my classmates/friends.!!
Kavvya.... hot babe..!! guys fall for her left right centre! damn helpful
Dhaval... love his smile and sense of humour !! u rock !!
chethan.. rocking hairstyle
dale... the bad man!! nice person to gossip with !!
Steffi susan... dunno how will i survive in ibsb without her help!! thanks babes...
dev....Nice physique and voice.....good frd!
anuradha.... gr8 class rep
chandan ....nice company and a good orator.
arjun,ayush,mayank...chikne guys!!
if i havent mentioned anyone else dont be disheartened..!!
muaaahh Sec B....
love
anu...!!